Friday, July 5, 2019

Worship Targets

This post is part of a series, which is designed to present slaves with targets that they can work towards meeting in order to better themselves. No timeline is presented in the list below– it may take you a year to meet these targets and it is possible that you will never be meet these targets for various reasons, including lack of interest, conflicting morals, or having a Master who is also willing to engage in these behaviors. As always, there are health and legal risks with engaging in some of the targets below and you should educate yourself about those risks.

I have made a separate post for Foot Worship, since I believe that particular area deserves special attention. The following is a list of various things to do when worshiping your Master. It is a generic list and you can add to it or modify it as needed.

- Learn to lick your Master’s body. He may have certain restrictions on where you lick, for example, I am good being licked anywhere, except my lips. I like being kissed, but only when I give the slave permission. You will find that certain areas are more pleasureful than others. Keep in mind that the technique (using your beard or stubble, biting, licking lightly or with pressure) all affect how pleasureful licking is. So learn how your Master reacts to various techniques to find what seems to produce the best reaction. I particularly enjoy the following and you will find that many people in general do:

o I love having my arm pits licked and eaten. It is like an orgasm when done properly for me and I can come over and over.

o I love having my ears licked

o I love having my neck licked, especially the m. sternocleidomastoideus – the reason most people end up with hickies here

o I love having the back of my neck and upper back licked

o The lower obliques are particularly sensitive

o Licking (the same way one would lick my neck) the inner leg – the adductor, which also causes the testicles to reflex, is very pleasureful

o I love having my ass tongued, the deeper the better

o I love having my balls licked and touched from behind

o Behind the kneecap is great to eat out

o And of course, licking the balls and cock and feet all great too

- Learn to massage your Master’s body. There are a few pointers in general that many slaves mess up:

o When massaging limbs, move in the direction of blood to the heart

o Massage each side equally. If you spend two minutes massaging one hand, spend two minutes massaging the other

o Don’t step on or kneel on your Master when moving around – honestly, unless you actually are really skilled in using your knees and elbows to massage

o Spend significant time massaging each part of the body. Rubbing your Master’s finger for one second and moving onto the next, isn’t going to really leave any real impression

o Gently learn to stretch out muscles, for example, Knee pain can often be the cause of the adductors or abductors pulling on the knee cap. To resolve this, there is actually a simple stretch that you can do on your Master to release all of that tension on the knee cap. Similarly, a headache, can actually be the cause of muscles in the back, reflecting pain up the neck and onto the skull where they are attached.

o Who says romance is dead? Use a heating pad, put on some candles, throw on some calming music and make your Master feel good

- Worship could be done on a schedule, many religions do this for instance, however, I think that just makes it dull. I think that if you see your Master come home from the gym, give him a good lick and massage and put on a bath for him. In other words, if you aren’t in bondage, and aren’t carrying out another task, why not spend time worshipping him?

- Learn to dry off your Master when he is exiting a bath tub. I could write a whole post on this alone, since many slaves apparently don’t know how to use a towel – the goal is to essentially remove the water from the body using the towel in a gentle, but firm manner – if you are picking up on sarcasm here, I am serving it up plenty

- Some slaves are into praying to their Master’s, treating them as their god, and if you are into this, be my guest.

The end-goals of worshipping your Master are:

- To make him feel like the superior man that he is;

- and to improve at it continually, getting better at various techniques, while introducing new techniques

Pain Targets

This post is part of a series, which is designed to present slaves with targets that they can work towards meeting in order to better themselves. The targets listed below are ordered in their level of difficulty (at least from my perspective). You could easily add to this list. No timeline is presented – it may take you a year to meet these targets and it is possible that you will never be meet these targets for various reasons, including lack of interest, conflicting morals, or having a Master who is also willing to engage in these behaviors. As always, there are health and legal risks with engaging in some of the targets below and you should educate yourself about those risks.

Pain pigs are those slaves who enjoy pain – otherwise known as masochists. While many slaves state that they don’t enjoy pain, like everything else, there is a line between pleasure and displeasure and the line must be determined. Because of this, many slaves are actually missing out on something that can be enjoyable but requires experimentation and communication. I would also say that one’s enjoyment of pain fluctuates, for example, one day you may enjoy some pain and another you may not. Also, everyone is wired differently, my nipples do very little for me for instance. However, timing is also important, applying a high degree of constant pain when I am fucking, sometimes increases pleasure immensely. If one were to apply such pain while I am sitting here writing this, it would do nothing for me – except perhaps anger me.

The catch with many of the activities below, is that they can be combined, sounds even more painful? Not really. If you’ve ever had an itch on one arm and you pinch the other, the itching stops. Placing nipple clamps on your nipples and having your balls tied up and slapped with a belt is not necessarily more painful than just having your balls tied up and slapped with a belt. Actually, I would say that it is perhaps less painful, because your brain is trying to process multiple signals and focusing on just one becomes difficult. Combining pain play with bondage, also helps increase pleasure. For example, having a gag in your mouth or a pillow over your head, will potentially cause some oxygen deprivation, which will increase pleasure. Likewise, having your balls tied up, will reduce them moving around when pain is inflicted, which may actually help reduce the painful feeling.

This post, as with several others, is more of a list of activities that one could engage in, the intensity of such activities, the stage during sex or orgasming that it occurs at, requires experimentation.

Balls

- Having your balls slapped

- Dripping hot wax on your balls

- Applying heat to your balls using warm or hot metal

- Tying up your balls with rope or another material to pull them away from the body, and having your Master pound (fuck) against them (I love doing this BTW)

- Having your balls stretched using a parachute and weight

- Having clothes pegs on your balls

- Having clothes pegs zipped off your balls

- Having your balls whipped or paddled or belted

- Putting your balls in a vice or under some other pressure

- Having your balls kicked

- Electrocuting your balls

- Sticking needles into your balls

Cock

- Having your cock slapped

- Dripping hot wax on the shaft of your cock

- Dripping hot wax on the head (foreskin retracted) of your cock

- Applying heat to your cock using warm or hot metal

- Applying extreme cold to your cock

- Having your cock whipped

- Putting your cock in a vice or under some other pressure

- Placing clothes pegs on your cock

- Electrocuting the outside of your cock

- Having your cock sounded

- Having clothes pegs zipped off of your cock

- Electrocuting the inside of your cock (using metal sounds)

- Sticking needles into your cock

Ass

- Having your ass spanked with a hand

- Having hot wax dripped on your ass

- Having your ass whipped

- Having your ass paddled

- Having your ass spanked with a leather belt

Face

- Having your face slapped with a hand

- Having hot wax dripped on your face

- Having your face punched with a fist

Nipples


- Having clothes pegs or clamps on your nipples with no agitation

- Having hot wax dripped on your nipples

- Having clothes pegs or clamps on your nipples with agitation/movement

- Having clothes pegs zipped off your nipples

Body

- Having your body slapped

- Having your body whipped or belted

- Having your body punched

- Having clothes pegs placed on your body

- Having hot wax dripped on your body

- Having clothes pegs zipped off your body

Tuesday, July 2, 2019

Foot Worship Targets



Foot worship is an art form that warrants its own post within this series. I would love to extend this post with pictures in the near future of how to properly take care of your Master’s feet. As always, there are health and legal risks with engaging in various behaviors and you should educate yourself about those risks.

The following is a list of various things to do when worshipping your Master’s feet:

- Brunt the full weight of your Master’s legs and feet at all times (he shouldn’t have to hold them in the air or into place for you)

- Kneel on all fours and be a footstool for your Master’s feet

- Lie on your back, so your Master can rest his feet on your face or on your body. When resting on your face, you can lick the soles of them or in between them

- Learn to lick your Masters feet all over regardless of whether they are clean or sweaty or dirty

- Lick in between each toe of your Master’s feet

- Suck and lick each toe individually on your Master’s feet

- Suck and lick toes in pairs or in groups on your Master’s feet (such as all toes except the big toe, or all toes on one foot, or all toes on both feet, or both big toes)

- Lick the soles of your Masters feet

- Clip your Masters toe nails

- Lick and suck any dirt from your Masters toe nails to clean them

- File your Masters toe nails

- Exfoliate your Master’s feet

- Moisturize your Master’s feet

Voyeur Targets

This post is part of a series, which is designed to present slaves with targets that they can work towards meeting in order to better themselves. The targets listed below are ordered in their level of difficulty (at least from my perspective). You could easily add to this list. No timeline is presented – it may take you a year to meet these targets and it is possible that you will never be meet these targets for various reasons, including lack of interest, conflicting morals, or having a Master who is also willing to engage in these behaviors. As always, there are health and legal risks with engaging in some of the targets below and you should educate yourself about those risks.

- Comfortable being naked around your Master in private – no desire to cover yourself

- Comfortable performing sex acts upon yourself in front of your Master in private (such as performing oral or anal sex with a dildo)

- Comfortable being naked in public with only your Master present (such as on a forest trail)

- Comfortable being naked around others in public (such as a nudist resort or beach or public washroom or pool change room)

- Comfortable having 1:1 sex with your Master in front of other men

- Comfortable having 1:1 sex with other men in front of your Master

- Comfortable having pictures and video of your full body (including face) taken of yourself clothed in non-sexual scenes

- Comfortable having group sex with other men in front of your Master

- Comfortable having pictures and video taken of your naked body (excluding face) in non-sexual scenes

- Comfortable having pictures and video taken of your naked body (excluding face) in sexual scenes

- Comfortable having pictures and video taken of your full naked body (including face) in non-sexual scenes

- Comfortable having pictures and video taken of your naked body (including face) in sexual scenes

- Comfortable having sex with your Master, in public, in front of others

- Comfortable having group sex with other men, in public, in front of others

- Comfortable having non-identifiable pictures and video posted on publicly accessible porn sites

- Comfortable having identifiable pictures and video posted on publicly accessible porn sites

Fuck and Cum Targets

This post is part of a series, which is designed to present slaves with targets that they can work towards meeting in order to better themselves. The targets listed below are ordered in their level of difficulty (at least from my perspective). You could easily add to this list. No timeline is presented – it may take you a year to meet these targets and it is possible that you will never be meet these targets for various reasons, including lack of interest, conflicting morals, or having a Master who is also willing to engage in these behaviors. As always, there are health and legal risks with engaging in some of the targets below and you should educate yourself about those risks.

From a 1:1 perspective, a good slave will take his Master’s cock and cum as often as his Master wants it, in any position, as gentle or as hard, or in any place. That said, there are several variables with being a good fuck and cum pig. Some guys cum quickly and duration isn’t really a factor, however, it is normal for me to fuck anywhere from 30 minutes to six hours. Frequency is also another factor. It is normal for me to fuck two or more times per day. Cock length and thickness also factor into things. Experience getting fucked and an ability to relax is also another factor. All of these things make it difficult to create a specific set of targets, so the targets below are in general just guidelines. They are categorized to make them easier to read.

Oral Sex

- Properly suck a cock and learn what pleases your Master

- Swallow a cock (gagging is fine, but you need to be able to swallow it)

- Swallow a cock for a certain number of seconds with the goal of increasing that number

- Taking cum in your mouth and not swallowing

- Taking cum in your mouth and swallowing

- Taking spit in your mouth and swallowing

- Being comfortable vomiting while engaging in oral sex

- Having oral sex in private places

- Having oral sex in public, although hidden places (such as a forest trail or alley)

- Having oral sex in public, although visible places

Food Sex

- Eating food (or drinks) with your own cum on it

- Freezing all of your cum and saving it to eat or use as lube later

- Eating food (or drinks) with your Master’s cum on it

- Eating food (or drinks) with a man’s cum on it

- Eating food (or drinks) with the cum of many men on it

Fisting

- Ability to get fingered by your Master, with 1-4 fingers

- Ability to get fisted by your Master, whole hand

- Ability to get punch fisted by your Master, whole hand

- Ability to get fisted by your Master, whole hand and partial arm

- Ability to get fisted by your Master, whole hand and up to elbow

- Ability to get double-fisted by your Master, two whole hands

- Ability to get double-fisted by your Master, two whole hands and partial arms

- Ability to get fully fisted by your Master, whole hand, up to shoulder

Anal Sex

- Ability to properly clean out your ass using a douche – can’t stress this enough

- Ability to get fucked in private

- Ability to get fucked by your Master with a condom and lube

- Ability to accept getting bred (cum in your ass) by your Master, every time

- Ability to get fucked by your Master without a condom, but using lube

- Ability to get fucked by your Master without a condom and only spit – no lube

- Ability to get fucked by your Master without a condom and without spit and without lube – essentially, you need to learn to lube your own body naturally

- Ability to get fucked once per 24-hour period by your Master

- Ability to get fucked twice per 24-hour period by your Master

- Ability to get fucked three times per 24-hour period by your Master

- Ability to get double-penetrated and fucked with your Master’s cock and a dildo at the same time

- Ability to accept getting bred by multiple men – not only by your Master

- Ability to get double-penetrated and fucked with your Master’s cock and another man at the same time

- Ability to get triple-penetrated and fucked with your Master’s cock and two other men at the same time

- Ability to get fucked in a public place, although hidden (such as a forest trail or alley)

- Ability to get fucked in public, although visible places (such as sex club or pubic washroom)

Chastity Targets

This post is part of a series, which is designed to present slaves with targets that they can work towards meeting in order to better themselves. The targets listed below are ordered in their level of difficulty (at least from my perspective). You could easily add to this list. No timeline is presented – it may take you a year to meet these targets and it is possible that you will never be meet these targets for various reasons, including lack of interest, conflicting morals, or having a Master who is also willing to engage in these behaviors. As always, there are health and legal risks with engaging in some of the targets below and you should educate yourself about those risks.

- Wear a chastity device during the day for a period of time, can be removed – ideal to increase the period of time over time (i.e. 1 hour, 4 hours, 8 hours, etc.)

- Wear a chastity device for the entire night (to test nightly erections), can be removed

- Wear a chastity device during the day for a period of time, cannot be removed

- Wear a chastity device during the night, cannot be removed

- Wear a chastity device for a period of time – both day and night, cannot be removed

Tie chastity device wearing to other targets in specific categories or across categories. For example, drinking a man’s piss for five days (toilet category), grants you removal of the chastity device OR drinking a man’s piss for five days (toilet category) and stretching your balls for 15 minutes for four days (modification category) grants you removal of the chastity device.

Toilet Slave Targets



This post is part of a series, which is designed to present slaves with targets that they can work towards meeting in order to better themselves. The targets listed below are ordered in their level of difficulty (at least from my perspective). You could easily add to this list. No timeline is presented – it may take you a year to meet these targets and it is possible that you will never be meet these targets for various reasons, including lack of interest, conflicting morals, or having a Master who is also willing to engage in these behaviors. Also, the frequency of activities is not presented. As always, there are health and legal risks with engaging in some of the targets below and you should educate yourself about those risks.

Being the ideal toilet slave has two primary aspects, which are used to divide the following targets: piss/urinal and scat, the latter of which seems to present difficulties for many slaves.

Piss/Urinal

- Becoming comfortable pissing in public at urinals (eliminating your shy bladder)

- Pissing on yourself naked (such as laying on your back in your bath tub and pissing on your body)

- Pissing yourself clothed in private

- Having a man piss on you (naked or clothed) in private

- Having your own diluted in your mouth (not swallowing)

- Drinking your own diluted piss from a cup

- Having your own dehydrated piss in your mouth (not swallowing)

- Drinking your own dehydrated piss from a cup

- Drinking your own piss (regardless of strength) directly from your own cock (such a laying on your back and pissing up towards your mouth)

- Holding a man’s piss in your mouth without swallowing (such as swishing it around like mouthwash or simply having it in your mouth and spitting it out)

- Drinking a man’s diluted piss from a cup

- Drinking a man’s dehydrated piss from a cup

- Drinking a man’s piss from his cock in private without his cock being in your mouth (such as through a funnel or tube)

- Drinking a man’s piss from his cock in private with his cock being in your mouth (not spilling a drop)

- Having a man piss in your ass through a funnel or tube.

- Having a man piss directly into your ass (no condom)

- Drinking a man’s piss in public with little to no risk of being seen (such as in an alley or forest trail)

- Pissing yourself clothed in public with little or no risk of being seen

- Watching other men piss at urinals (enjoying seeing other men pissing)

- Having a man to piss on you in public (either naked or clothed) with little or no risk of being seen

- Pissing yourself clothed in public while being seen (which has a higher humiliation factor)

- Having a man piss on you in public (either naked or clothed) in public while being seen

- Drinking a man’s piss in public while being seen



Scat

- Sucking a “clean” dildo that has been in your ass

- Sucking a man’s cock that has been in your “clean” ass (i.e. ass to mouth)

- Licking and tonguing a man’s ass when it is ripe (sweaty and possibly a little dirty)

- Sucking a “dirty” dildo that has been in your ass.

- Sucking a man’s cock that has been in your “dirty” ass.

- Licking and tonguing man’s ass when it is “dirty” (such as after he has taken a shit, but before wiping his ass)

- Masturbating with your own shit on your cock

- Masturbating with a man’s shit on your cock

- Having a man shit on your face

- Having a man shit into your mouth (but not chewing or swallowing)

- Shitting on a man’s cock and sucking it off (your own shit)

- Having a man shit into your mouth and chewing (but not swallowing)

- Eating another man’s shit (swallowing)

Saturday, February 23, 2019

Cage for Rent

People rent rooms in hotels all the time, but a hotel room isn't suitable for a slave now is it? You're in luck! I am now renting my cage. It can be rented by the hour or night. I am located in the heart of downtown Toronto, on the north-east boundary of the gay village. Great for people travelling on business.

General:

* Time duration is agreed upon up front, you will be locked in the cage for that duration.
* Bucket provided for bodily functions.
* Water provided for free.
* Bare cage or pillow and blanket if requested. 
* Gear available for wear if desired or bring your own. 

Rental is for the cage use only. Play session is possible, but not included. 

To book, send me an email. 

Tuesday, January 1, 2019

2019 Expectations

No, I haven't gone away...

As of 2019, I am only engaging in play sessions of any length with men who: (a) I have met before, (b) meet my expectations out outlined here, (c) want more than a one-time visit, and (d) who are healthy and do not have any STD's (HIV positive, but undetectable is okay).

One of the problems that I am seeing in the community is the rise of inexperienced subs and DOM's, who are making it challenging for more experienced men such as myself. While the influx of fresh blood is good (we all have to start somewhere, right?) about a quarter of these have unrealistic expectations and it is becoming most taxing. For example, a guy who comes to visit me and wants to be brutally spanked, but who expects that as soon as the session is over, his ass is going to be just like it was prior to the session is unrealistic. Your ass will be red, sore, and if you are on blood thinners or if you bruise easily, it will be bruised and it may take days or even weeks for the swelling and bruising to go away. Although unlikely, some marks may be permanent. Likewise, you will wear a blindfold and it won't be padded with bunny fur (LOL) and it will leave marks around your face for a few hours or perhaps longer - depending on your body's ability to recover from the pressure. I get it, you have a job, you have a partner, you want to appear as though nothing happened. My recommendation? Watch porn. If you engage in BDSM, you are going to have marks, you are going to have pain, why? Because it is real and while I try to go slow and build, every one responds differently and if you can't take the realness of being with a man like me, then don't waste my time or your own. There are plenty of fake DOM's out there who you can play with - I am not one of them.

Some guys who visit, and even if they cum during the visit, love the experience and fully understand that this is real BDSM. I LOVE THESE TYPES OF SUBS. But a few guys who visit and after they cum, they feel guilt or regret over what they did and instead of owning that, they take it out on the DOM, and quite frankly IT ISN'T COOL!!!! I have had some experiences that have put my own safety at risk. If I invite you into my home, I expect that you are mentally sound and that you will behave respectfully towards my person and my home.

If you have never engaged in any BDSM activity before, we aren't a match. While I used to play with first-timers, I am giving up on this in 2019. Men like me need subs who have a certain mindset and maturity that newbies just don't have. It's like trying to drive a car when you can't even ride a bike. You need to match with someone who is close to your level. You may like me or be turned on by me or dream of some long life with me and that is wonderful, but first you need to gain experience before you contact me.

So what is a DOM to do? Simple. Moving forward, I will set expectations in this post. If you do not agree in writing to everything in this post, then we will not meet or play. It is that simple. It will save us both a lot of time. NO concessions will be made. Your agreement will be retained indefinitely, although discretely within the law. If your email or message to me has any limits, we won't meet.

Here are my expectations (it is explicit). We may do any of these during a session, you will not have any say (i.e. no exclusions, it isn't a menu).

General. You will shower and douche prior to coming. You will not smell of any extreme scents, including soap, shampoo, smoking, vape, weed, cologne, alcohol, etc. You will not wear any deodorant. You should not eat or drink prior to the session.

Drugs. You may use drugs prior to meeting, but not during the session. If injecting, cover any wounds with a band-aid. Poppers are generally not permitted since the vapour also affects me and I prefer to be 100% in control without any substances that cause me to be light headed or affect my sexual performance - this is also for your safety. Ask before meeting as I may permit it depending on the scene. You may drink and you may be drunk, but you are consenting to us playing by attending the session and you will state in writing prior to the session that you are sober when you agree to what is written herein. Otherwise, you must be sober when you arrive.

Dress. Avoid wearing underwear and if you are using a chastity device, bring a key as it may be removed. No key? No play. You may wear leather or rubber, but it will be removed. You will be naked.

Sexuality. I don't care if you are straight, bi-sexual, gay or anything in between, however I only play with CIS (born with male sex organs) men who still identify as male. Don't like that and think it is too old fashion? Too damn bad - keep your leftist B/S. I am not into women or non-adults and as such I am not into feminization and diaper lovers. If you have a girlfriend or wife, she can watch, but she must be clothed and cannot participate at all and she will not have any say over what happens to you. You will engage in 100% homosexual behaviour with no restrictions sexually. I only permit couples after a first visit 1:1

Name calling. You will be called everything in the book, including "IT". You will be told to use these same words to refer to yourself. If you don't like being objectified, we are absolutely not a match.

Time. You will set the duration of the play prior to. You will be kept for that amount of time. For example, if you say you want to play for eight hours, we will set an alarm and you will be kept for those eight hours. You will stay for that period of time. While one cannot keep someone legally against their will, if you complain and want to leave, I will let you, but we will never play together again and I guarantee that afterwards, you will regret it and want to come back - but you won't be allowed.

Health. I will not meet anyone with genital herpes, body fungus, or any communicable disease. HIV is okay provided you are tested every six months and are undetectable. While I am negative as of this writing, if you are HIV-phobic, we will not be a match. You will disclose any open wounds or sores or lesions, proneness to bruising or bleeding before meeting and failure to do so will result in immediate termination of the session. I will clean the gear prior to the session. If you want to clean it yourself, you may do so prior to the session. You recognize that STD's can be transmitted by gear and you assume the risk if you contract such an STD from the gear. You should get your Hep-A and Hep-B shots, I have had mine. You may bring your own gear, but I need to know in advance. If you contract an STD from meeting me or vice versa, I will not hold it against you and I expect the same. While I do get tested and you should do, there is no 100% certainty, it happens in sexual play. It sucks, but it happens. If you can't accept that, then we are not a match. If you are extremely overweight, I will probably not play with you. If you have any other health issues that may put your safety at risk, you need to disclose them prior to the session, don't tell me after you get to my place. If you don't go to the doctor regularly, we aren't a match. If you have the flu or a cold or a fever, don't come and see me! Your health is important as it impacts me and the others that play with me and I don't want some dead guy on my hands.

Initial. You will be inspected. You will remove your clothing. You will be told to assume various positions. You will be completely naked.

Breath Control. You will be suffocated with various means, my hands, pillows, plastic, whatever I can think of. You will be choked with a collar or belt and it may leave marks on your neck. You will be choked with my cock down your throat. You will spit up, you will vomit, you will have nasal mucus. You may end up with a lung or nasal infection. You may pass out. However, I take B/C seriously and I don't want my subs to die. You will be gaged with a ball gag, piss gag, open mouth gag, etc. You won't be able to speak. If have dental problems, you may chip a tooth or something, your problem - not mine.

Sex. I will have sex with you. You will perform oral sex on me. This oral sex will not always be with a condom. You will be face fucked, you will choke, you will vomit, you will spit up, you will have nasal mucus. I will fuck between your legs and rub against you. I will fuck your ass. It may hurt during and after. Fucking will be unsafe, although I may choose to use a condom at my discretion. I will not always use lube. I have a very high stamina (I am certainly a power top). I can fuck for hours. If you can't take it (i.e. are not a power bottom), we are not a match. I will engage in double or multi-penetration with you along with other men. I will engage in group activities with you and you will have no say in who these other men are. You will be fucked in the ass repeatedly even if it hurts. I will double-dip (i.e. fuck another subs ass and then your ass without cleaning in between). Some behaviours will be high-risk for STD's and HIV. Sometimes during sex, you will be bound and gagged. You will not be able to free yourself. This isn't rape, you are agreeing to sex while being bound by meeting with me.

Erectile problems. I don't care if you can't get up. Your cock is completely useless to me. I just need you to have one.

Circumcised or uncircumcised. I don't care.

Fisting. I will engage in fingering and fisting your ass as well as fingering your foreskin and fingering your piss hole. I will use lube, it may hurt, you may end up with wounds, infections, and pain. This may include double fisting, punch fisting, deep fisting, etc.

Cum. I will cum in your mouth or your ass (if I decide not to wear a condom). I will pour cum from previous condoms in your ass and mouth. You will eat food that you or I have cummed on. I will save  my cum and your cum and use it as lube, pour it in your mouth, or in your ass. Other men may cum in your mouth or your ass and also on food that you will eat. I expect you to swallow cum.

Modifications. I may shave your head and possibly shave or wax your body. Many guys don't like having their heads shaved, tough. It makes putting on a hood or blindfold or head harness a whole lot easier. If you are serious about BDSM, you won't give a damn about your hair. I will pump your cock, I will put metal sounds into your cock, I will insert my finger into your cock, I will put a ball weight on your balls, I will stretch your foreskin (if you have one). All of these will potentially bruise or leave marks or cause pain that lasts more than a day and may result in infections.

Pain. You will be paddled, whipped, hit with a belt, kicked, bunched, slapped, etc. Wax will be dripped on you, it will be hot, it will leave marks. Candles vary in intensity and everyone has a different tolerance. You may experience pain, bruising, and marks well after the session. You cock and balls and ass will be sore, swollen, and bruised after the session.

Toilet. I will piss on your body. I will piss in your mouth and expect you to swallow it. I will piss in your ass, directly with no condom or in a funnel. I will do ass-to-mouth, putting my cock in your mouth after it has been in your ass. I will shit on the outside of your body. I will shit in your mouth if you request it and agree in writing prior to the session. I will spit in your mouth and on your ass.

Bondage. I will put you in a cage. I will put you in a blindfold and full head hood. I will put you in a leather harness. I may encase you in plaster or plastic wrap and you will be immobile. This may result in excessive sweating, cold, heat, marks on your body from the leather that take a while to go away. When in the cage, you will be locked in, you will not be able to escape. You will have to use a pail to go to the washroom. You will have limited access to water and food, as provided.

Other. You will eat and drink out of a bowl on the floor and not out of a glass. You will sit when you piss.

Outdoors. Some scenes may involve outdoor play. This includes public washrooms, parks, vehicles, etc. There is a risk of police involvement and other risks. If you are not okay with this, you need to make it known prior to meeting. Such scenes that I have engaged in the past include public abduction, being transported in the trunk of a vehicle, being tied to trees, public sex scenes, public restrooms and glory holes, and sex clubs and bars.

Voyeurism. I will have you engage in sexual activities in front of me, such as dildo play in your ass and mouth. I will have you engage in sexual activities with other men and while I will ask that they wear condoms, what happens with those men can be unpredictable (i.e. condoms break, they cum on your ass and then insert raw, etc.) and I can't control this. You need to be okay with that. Starting in 2019, you will now be photographed. It is no longer optional as it was in the past. I can assure you, that unless required by law, that every reasonable precaution will be taken to ensure no identifiable photos of you will be distributed (i.e. your head will be removed or you will be hooded or blindfolded or facial areas of the photos blacked out).

Worship. You will massage me. You will lick every part of my body, including my feet and ass and pits. If you "aren't into feet" or something like that, we aren't a match.

Sleeping over/extended visits. You can sleep over, you can stay for extended visits, provided we agree before hand and I will need some notice. If you stay, you will have to follow all of my rules and breaking or challenging those rules is not permitted - it isn't a game for me. You will either sleep in the cage (longer visits) or chained around the neck in bed (single night visits).

Affection. I generally do show some affection during or after a session, often as a break. I am not heartless. That said, I generally don't kiss guys unless they visit multiple times and even then. Dry kissing is okay, provided that I initiate or you ask permission and I say yes. Touching me also requires permission. I am 100% DOM top. I am not into performing oral, rimming, or being fucked. There are no exceptions to this. I have no desire to do these things on a sub.

Security. I now have a security system, including security cameras inside my home. This is to ensure my safety. If you are not okay being filmed on a security system, then don't come. There are also security cameras in my building and in building security. The system is a cloud system and footage is retained.

Cell phones. Ridiculous that I need to write this, but turn off your damn phone or don't bring it to a session. Answering calls during a session will not be permitted.

In Summary

In short, I am sane and my goal is to ensure a mutually pleasureful and reasonably safe experience for both myself and the sub and one that gradually increases intensity over time to permit growth. However, what happens to you, will be my sole decision. I will not accept any limitations anymore. I also assure you that I am committed to the privacy of you and your identity and expect the same.

ONE more thing: while I list some of the possible risks of the various activities above, everyone responds differently. For example, you may experience heart palpitations or vision problems after breath control. While the goal is to not have anything bad happen to you, there is always a risk. You are assuming this risk when you visit me. If you can't be mature and understand that, then don't contact me. You should research the various activities above and by playing with me you are indicating that you are okay with me doing these activities with you.





Saturday, November 25, 2017

The Motivator

It's been a while since I last blogged and it isn't for any reason beyond a lack of inspiration, but lately I've had a few new encounters and therefore thoughts that I wanted to write about - besides, I can't let some of these popular BDSM sites, who have also started to blog, outdo me, right? So let's get on with it.

Everyone is driven by some kind of motivation and until recently, I hadn't really given this much thought. If a person approaches me and says "I want to be a 24/7 slave", I seldom asked why, I just assume, naively perhaps, that his desires were similar to mine. A person had been in contact with me a year ago and he said that he wanted to be my slave and he came to visit. From the get-go, I found him clingy and needy, and after a few visits, there was a reoccuring theme: he wanted to marry me and take my last name. I put it aside, thinking to myself that this would naturally be an option, the idea of a slave taking my last name is desireable, indeed wanted. The marrying part, well, that is up for discussion. I hadn't been too concerned regarding his incestent requests to marry me. But another theme emerged, when I would put a hood on him or a blindfold, he would eventually panic and we would have to end the session. So I stopped putting on the hood, the blindfold, really any gear at all, and he made it through the "session", but then it was no longer a session but a vanila hookup of sorts. I had hoped that perhaps after a few times of meeting him that I could slowly re-introduce the gear, but he began having the same panic attacks again. I then realized that his fetish, was the idea of taking another mans last name and marrying him that it had nothing to do with being a 24/7 slave or engaging in any BDSM activity of sorts. It might not have even been a fetish at all, but a sly way of getting something else. And it was this that made me think more about the motivations of people.

So what are my motivations exactly to be clear? I've had my fair share of vanilla relationships, but in the bedroom, it just isn't enough. I am too aggressive and I don't like an active partner. For many guys, who haven't been with an aggressive man, it is initially interesting for them, but, as I get used to them, so does the increase in my aggression, and this often scares them away. So I guess that is one motivation - the desire to have someone who is submissive in the bedroom. But being submissive in the bedroom doesn't mean that someone is a slave (I know some people use this parallel when they list their "experience" as a slave, but it is a reach at best).

The other aspect is control, the desire to control another man. In vanilla relationships, I haven't necessarily wanted to control my partner, but it was something that was always missing. I have had a few slaves who have come to visit for an extended period and I find it most rewarding and in seeking my motivation for wanting a 24/7 slave, I have to ask myself why. Is it him being naked and hooded? Yes. Is it about the constant thought in the back of my brain while I am at work, that there is a slave locked in my cage at home? Yes. Is it the ability to take him and have sex with him whenever I want or to command him to do something and he does it? Yes. But the part that is missing, because even all of that isn't enough motivation to own another man 24/7 - one can have much of this with just extended sessions, is what comes beyond a week or two, what is evident only after months, perhaps years. The ability to modify him and mould him to my liking, expanding his limits, changing his behaviors from being subserviant to a society and to others outside, to only being subserviant to myself. I have to say that this is my motivation. I don't want another mans belongings, his money, his citizenship (of whatever country he hails from), I don't want any of that. I want him, naked, exposed, and simple - just as he is, to be mine and to belong to me.

That is my motivation.